They say two things in life are certain: death and taxes. Now that tax season is behind us, perhaps it is a good time to turn our attention to the other certainty. Not to dwell in sadness, but to prepare in love.
As a minister, I have spent more time in funeral homes than most, and one thing I have learned is how valuable it is for individuals to have their affairs in order before they pass. While most people think about the major items like wills, finances, and estate planning, one important detail is often overlooked: planning your funeral service.
In moments of grief, families are often left trying to choose scripture readings, hymns, and songs that feel right. It is a task that can feel overwhelming and can sometimes lead to disagreements during an already emotional time. Having your preferences written down is a beautiful gift you can leave for your loved ones. It offers them guidance and peace when they need it most.
Here at the church, I have several service outlines from members who have thoughtfully planned ahead. Others have entrusted their wishes to a family member, included them with their will, or made arrangements directly with a funeral home. All of these approaches work well.
This month, I invite you to take a quiet afternoon to consider your own wishes. Choose two scripture passages and two or three hymns or songs you would like included in your service. You can give a copy to me for safekeeping or simply make sure it is placed with your important documents where your family can find it.
Taking these small steps now can spare your loved ones from difficult decisicions later. More importantly, it allows your faith, your hopes, and your love to be clearly expressed even after you are gone.
